Merry Christmas!!!

Hey y'all! Aly here with some christmas advice! Every one knows that for some people, money is really tight, so my family is doing something that is really fun.... or at least the "elders" think it is fun. We can not spend more than $10.00, or we can make something. But I have some different advice to give you. Table manners and conversations. I am not at all for table manners and all of that junk, but this might give you a little chuckle. It is table manners dos and don'ts.

1) Do not comlpain about your job, or brag. We all know that you job is the worst and your boss yells at you no matter what you do, so please do not announce it. Instead, share something funny that happened at work, or even something you did.

2) This is for all of those little helpers in the kitchen, do not beg to help and than say, " Oh, lets do it my way because no one likes the way you do it. You know I hate it when you put that in there, even though every one else likes it." If you asked to help, than you are going to shut your mouth and just let me do all of the cooking.

3) Please do not be one of those people who does absolutley nothing! Do not eat every thing at the table, go into the living room and tell every one to clean up while you nap and say to wake you up when desserts come out.

4) Try to avoid that really old relitive that every one hates because it takes him an hour just to say, "Back in my day....." Than he falls asleep. I mean, not that we are all blessed that he is still here, but sometimes you just can not take it any more! You just had to deal with that at turkey day, why deal with it on the best day of the year.

And the best thing that you have to do is....... Break up the number one couple at the table. You know, your cousin Jenny who is going out with that guy named... well guy who she met at the bar when she was compltley drunk! And every one acts like they are going strong and steady when they all know they will not last past the second course. Yeh. Every one wants them to just call it quits but know one is brave enough to do anything about it, end it at all costs! Because you are the one who has to sit next to them and watch them make kissy faces! I know how that feels.


One more thing, I want to give a shout out to all of my family. You guys are the best! And I want to say congrats to Grandma and PopPop for there 25 year annaversery comin' up on the 6th!Peace out!

;) Winks from your alycat!

All for you guys!

All right. Most girls think that they are in controll of their boyfriend, but I have to give props to my boys and say that sometimes guys want to have a say in the way that the relationship is going. And I am not saying that being able to tell the guy what you want is a bad thing, but only to a certain degree. I went around my school and asked some of my closest guy friends what they would want to tell their girl friend or just their really close friend who is a girl. Most of them said something that I can sum up in 4 words: "Guys can't read minds!" That means that you should not get mad at a guy because he wanted to take you to a Cowboys verses Giants even though he knows that you know nothing about football. But you should take it as the time to spend with him and to relize that the Cow boys so diserve to go to the Super Bowl. But off topic. So for all of the girls out there in a real and true relationship remember, boys are very simple cretures and that you should not try to make them perfect, because sometimes the best quality about a guy is that they are quarky. Peace out ;)

You are perfect!

I write this blog based on my happenings. Yesterday, one of my closest friends tells me that a guy that I really like is never going to like me because I have chicken arms and legs. I am 30 pounds under weight and I am not anarexic. That is just the way I am. And I can not change that .I am five feet tall and 75 pounds. I am 11 years old and apparently I should be 100 pounds. I would be very fat then. No offense to any one else but I am 11 after all. I do not care what others think of me. As long as I love my self, I am happy. It does not matter what size you are, how tall or short you are. As long as you respect yourself and do not degrate your self by looking in the mirror and sating you are ugly. If you do that, I want you to do the following every day: As soon as you get up and right before you go to bed, I want you to look in the mirror and say," I am beutiful" three times. After about a week or so, you should see your self differantly. Peace out:)

Just for you chris!

Hey Chris! I wanted to thank you so much for asking for help. And it is perfectly fine that you asked for advice. Infact, that is just what I wanted. I think that all the cat needs is lots of love. I mean, not that you are not, but I think that it needs tough love. If it does something bad, put on a very serious tone and just tell it no. I know it seems wierd, but it works. Another thing is if you have a cage, put it in there for a while. Let me know if it works and tell your friends! Peace out:)

Hey! Just wanted to say thanks for everything!

O.k. So I know that no body really writes in with there problems and that is fine. But I know that alot of you read my site and some of you think that it is really cool. I just wanted to say thanks to those people and that is it was not for you guys, I would think that I was giving out the wrong advice! But if I am, just leave me a comment and I will start right away on it. And for those other people who think that I am just a big jerk who likes to know about other peoples problems I have only this to say to them, I am sure that there has been one time or another where you went to a friend and told them everything that has been going on. For me that specail friend is Amber. Thank you so much for all of your love and support. Espaically through those really tough times with Brrrrrrrrrr. You are my best friend and I have never felt closer to any one before. So thank you to every one who has been there fofr me since the begginging. I hope that you enjoy this blog as much as I loved making it. Peace out!