Boy Drama to the rescue!

Gabriel, I understand what you mean. Sometimes you just have to take a chance. This is the first time ever that I am saying this but, who cares about your friend. She should have made a move by now. Any way, if she was a true friend, she would support you on any choice you make. And if she gets mad at you, she has every right. But only to a certain degree. This is an old saying, True friends= You cry, I cry. You fight, I fight. You jump off a bridge, I get a paddle boat and save your butt. Do you understand? Of course you do not.You do not understand because that was just another one of my crazy schemes. But something along the lines of what is happening to you is also going on with me. Me and my friend, Amber, both like this guy. And he likes her but not me. One day I told her that if he ever asks her out, she should say yes with out ever thinking about me. I told her that I would be mad at her for like, a minute, but then I would support her no matter what because I know deep in my heart that she deservs him and that it is the right thing to do. Peace out!

I Kandy :p

I Kandy wrote to me talking about how here best friend who is also an adult is moving away. I think that since she is a family friend, you guys will be in-touch. I just got an awsome idea! Why don't you make a blog and you guys can keep in touch. I think that wanting to cry and being torn is perfectly natrual. We all griev differently but yet the same. In fact, my Grand Mother died a week or so ago and I was so scared.... well not scared but, ok I was scared. I will admit it, I cried like a baby. But the next morning I got p and faces life on day at a time. The worst part is that no body felt like I did. I felt completely hopless! So if you want to cry, cry. If you want to be mad, be mad. Just do not let it stop you from acheiving those dreams of those she gave you. Write back to tell me how it went. Peace out!

More Urgant Advice!

Hola Peeps. Its Aly here... Well where else would I be? Some one wrote to me and they did not leave their name saying how this friend ditches her other friends not caring what they think. I ssay that you should one day tell her that if she is going to be that selfish towards her friends, than she needs to look around at the damage that is done. I know that you are a very loyal friend if you care enough to ask for help. I also think that one time, ask her if you could come along, and as seeing that you guys are friends, that should not be a problem. Write back and tell me how it went. Peace out!

Sophie! Thanx!

Alrighty than, Sophie wrote to me about something that really touched me. Now what I saw is that you should sit down with her and talk to her. Tell her that you feel that instead of teaching you a lesson, it feels like she just down right hates you. And if you have already done that, I think it is time for a mother-daughter counsling about your relationship. No one should feel like that. And sometimes, you should reflect on your behavior every time one of these "out-bursts" happens with your mom. Maybe you did do something that bad, but I doubt that. So all in all, sit her down and tell her what you are feeling. And if all else fails, Mother-Daughter counsling. Happy Hanicka, Kwanza, or merry Christmas! And tell your friends!

Christmas Count Down!

25 Days until Christams! And Happy Holidays From Aly and Her Family!

Rain Rain thnx 4 writing!

Rain Rain thnx for writing! I first want to say thank you so much for writing! Now to get to the point! I think that it is perfectly fine to be nervous. I have the same problem with a guy except he refuses to make the first move! Any way I say that you should tell him how you feel and if he seems reallly bummed about it, than I do not think that he is the right guy for you. And if he is rushing things, tell him to take it slow! I mean, this whole website is about being who you are and if you can not be that way around him, He is not the guy for you. Bye, peace out and tell your friends!

Just 4 U!

Yo Yo Yo! Or should I say hohoho!I am counting down the days to X-Mas! I just got some letter from Chris and she wanted to know if she could borrow 500 dollars from her friend. And my answer is....... Drum roll please. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
You get my point. If you do then you will just get stuck paying her back! And only you know how long that will take! Why do you not try going to your local craft store and get something to make with your own hands! That is what I am doing. I mean, you think you have it bad, I am an 11 year old kid with no allowance! But just try it. O, and I have a challange for you guys, Found this out. Does a waffle have a wattle? Leave me a comment with the answer and definition for wattle. Peace out.

Merry Christmas!!!

Hey y'all! Aly here with some christmas advice! Every one knows that for some people, money is really tight, so my family is doing something that is really fun.... or at least the "elders" think it is fun. We can not spend more than $10.00, or we can make something. But I have some different advice to give you. Table manners and conversations. I am not at all for table manners and all of that junk, but this might give you a little chuckle. It is table manners dos and don'ts.

1) Do not comlpain about your job, or brag. We all know that you job is the worst and your boss yells at you no matter what you do, so please do not announce it. Instead, share something funny that happened at work, or even something you did.

2) This is for all of those little helpers in the kitchen, do not beg to help and than say, " Oh, lets do it my way because no one likes the way you do it. You know I hate it when you put that in there, even though every one else likes it." If you asked to help, than you are going to shut your mouth and just let me do all of the cooking.

3) Please do not be one of those people who does absolutley nothing! Do not eat every thing at the table, go into the living room and tell every one to clean up while you nap and say to wake you up when desserts come out.

4) Try to avoid that really old relitive that every one hates because it takes him an hour just to say, "Back in my day....." Than he falls asleep. I mean, not that we are all blessed that he is still here, but sometimes you just can not take it any more! You just had to deal with that at turkey day, why deal with it on the best day of the year.

And the best thing that you have to do is....... Break up the number one couple at the table. You know, your cousin Jenny who is going out with that guy named... well guy who she met at the bar when she was compltley drunk! And every one acts like they are going strong and steady when they all know they will not last past the second course. Yeh. Every one wants them to just call it quits but know one is brave enough to do anything about it, end it at all costs! Because you are the one who has to sit next to them and watch them make kissy faces! I know how that feels.


One more thing, I want to give a shout out to all of my family. You guys are the best! And I want to say congrats to Grandma and PopPop for there 25 year annaversery comin' up on the 6th!Peace out!

;) Winks from your alycat!

All for you guys!

All right. Most girls think that they are in controll of their boyfriend, but I have to give props to my boys and say that sometimes guys want to have a say in the way that the relationship is going. And I am not saying that being able to tell the guy what you want is a bad thing, but only to a certain degree. I went around my school and asked some of my closest guy friends what they would want to tell their girl friend or just their really close friend who is a girl. Most of them said something that I can sum up in 4 words: "Guys can't read minds!" That means that you should not get mad at a guy because he wanted to take you to a Cowboys verses Giants even though he knows that you know nothing about football. But you should take it as the time to spend with him and to relize that the Cow boys so diserve to go to the Super Bowl. But off topic. So for all of the girls out there in a real and true relationship remember, boys are very simple cretures and that you should not try to make them perfect, because sometimes the best quality about a guy is that they are quarky. Peace out ;)

You are perfect!

I write this blog based on my happenings. Yesterday, one of my closest friends tells me that a guy that I really like is never going to like me because I have chicken arms and legs. I am 30 pounds under weight and I am not anarexic. That is just the way I am. And I can not change that .I am five feet tall and 75 pounds. I am 11 years old and apparently I should be 100 pounds. I would be very fat then. No offense to any one else but I am 11 after all. I do not care what others think of me. As long as I love my self, I am happy. It does not matter what size you are, how tall or short you are. As long as you respect yourself and do not degrate your self by looking in the mirror and sating you are ugly. If you do that, I want you to do the following every day: As soon as you get up and right before you go to bed, I want you to look in the mirror and say," I am beutiful" three times. After about a week or so, you should see your self differantly. Peace out:)

Just for you chris!

Hey Chris! I wanted to thank you so much for asking for help. And it is perfectly fine that you asked for advice. Infact, that is just what I wanted. I think that all the cat needs is lots of love. I mean, not that you are not, but I think that it needs tough love. If it does something bad, put on a very serious tone and just tell it no. I know it seems wierd, but it works. Another thing is if you have a cage, put it in there for a while. Let me know if it works and tell your friends! Peace out:)

Hey! Just wanted to say thanks for everything!

O.k. So I know that no body really writes in with there problems and that is fine. But I know that alot of you read my site and some of you think that it is really cool. I just wanted to say thanks to those people and that is it was not for you guys, I would think that I was giving out the wrong advice! But if I am, just leave me a comment and I will start right away on it. And for those other people who think that I am just a big jerk who likes to know about other peoples problems I have only this to say to them, I am sure that there has been one time or another where you went to a friend and told them everything that has been going on. For me that specail friend is Amber. Thank you so much for all of your love and support. Espaically through those really tough times with Brrrrrrrrrr. You are my best friend and I have never felt closer to any one before. So thank you to every one who has been there fofr me since the begginging. I hope that you enjoy this blog as much as I loved making it. Peace out!

Advice just for u!

I just got a comment from my best friend gymnastagp and she has this problem about a boy. She says that he is really cute but equelly foolish. And he can be mean but is never mean towards her. My advice is jsut take it slow. I know which guy you are talking about and I know all about him. Get to know him better becasue that is not the real him. Maybe he was just nervous around you. I know that this is not the best advice in the world, but it is the truth. So peace out!

Internet saftey!

Every body knows that I am not much for saftey if you have read my last post about the zip line incadent. But this is not about how many knee pads you have to have before you go roller blading, or that you have to wear a helment riding on a harley. This is about internet saftey.

This is the most important saftey that I value. Most websites like this one let you flag a website if there is any inapproprite things on it. If they do not have some way you can tag it tell your parents asap and they will write a letter to the company. Also some people think it is really cool to use bad words or content on chatting web sites, but this is the coolest chick ever and she thinks that it is really nerdy. So if you do you need to stop now because you can get in big trouble, not only by your parents but by the people who run the site.

The really big mistake people make is giving out personal info about yourself. I have seen poeple give out there numbers and they still regreat it to this day becuase the person is still calling them. The last thing is internet bullying. Like I said peple think it is cool to say things so the other people think that they are cool. So next time you are going to give out your number, call some one a name, or curse on the site, think, "What would aly think of me and will I get in trouble?" Peace out!

My best friend!!

Every body knows that my best friend for life is the boy crazy, fashion loving, not as nearly as hyper as me: Amber!

Now if you have read her blog at www.ambers-zine.blogspot.com then you probably saw that I am the starter of her most unsual problems and that is so not true! Who knew that trying to zip line from my house to m y friends house at the end of the street with nothing but a metel coat hanger and some rope would not work! O.K. Now that I am saying it I understand what went wrong. I was supposed to use a plastic coar hanger! Duh!! How did I miss that? Any way, I bet you are wondering how this envoles Amber. It is a very long story with alot of little details. But to put it in a nut shell, Amber is always in the wrong spot in the wrong time. And instead of using my brother I thought that if I used Amber the results would be more accurate if I used some one closer to my weight. I did it first just to show her, but when she did it, right in the middle of the rope she fell. But she was being a totel whimp because she only fell like, 7 feet. So now you understand that part of her.
Now on to a differant side of amber. She is super boy crazy! I mean come on! She is just as boy crazy as I am hyper! And I wake up every morining like I just ate all of my halloween candy in two minutes. And I have done that before. So I will tell you more about her later! Peace out!

What is exactly up with guys?

Here is exactly whats up with guys. Now all my life I have been the best of friends with guys. And I can understand them like the back of my hand. Guys are really easy to please, most of the time. So you should always be your self around a guy no matter what. And if you happen to like a guy but he does not like you back. Do not freak out! I repeat, Do not freak out! It may seem like the end of the world, and it is going to sting for a little while, but that is perfectly normal. The key is to bounce back and not let yourself get bummed out about a guy! In fact I am going through a bit of a boy drama my self.

How to tell he likes you is the main questions that I get, but there really is no exact answer. You see, guys are like animals. Monkeys if you want to be percise. Every one of those monkeys has a differant habbit that they performe when they are around the hot and spicey female cheetah, us! So in case you were wondering on the exact answer, just whatch how he acts around you and compare it to other girls when you are not around. Or at least when he thinks you are not around.
How to tell a guy you like him. Now I know that this is just me but what I like to do is just walk up to the guy and look him straight in the eye and say that I like him. If he says he does not feel the same way I say I understand and that if we can still be friends. I am not crushed or anything. Infact I am pretty come with it no matter what. But I know what you are thinking. That it is easier said then done. So that is my post today and I hoped you enjoyed it. If you need advice just leave me a letter in the comments place and right after I read it I will delete it so no one will see it. Peace out and like my best friend amber says, ttyl chou!

Finally the results to preppy, peppy or just like me!

Super sory that I did not get back to you on the results. Hey, can we do something about the font size. Like make it bigger?Way to big. Think a little bit smaller.Smaller. Perfect. Now down to buissnes.... O who am I kidding? There is no room for buissness at my site.

Mostly A's: Are you my long lost twin or something?You love the punk rock style, but you are very color full. You love to experament with new ideas and even some old ones! I guess you could say you are the best of both worlds! Or in this case three!!!

Mostly B's: Wow! Youa are super colorful. But be careful other wise people will start to think that you came out of the 60's! All you think about is color and it really shows through your clothes and your being.

Mostly C's: I really do not know what to say about your style except for that you dress like you work at the town library. I mean come on! Some people really do not want to get old but by the way you dress I have a feeling that you can not wait! Here is a tip: There are a lot of cute preppy styles if you are really into that kind of stuff. And the one way to glam up something boring is to acceserise like there is no tomorrow! Look for my next fashion advice coloum to find out more!

Are you preppy, peppy are just like me!

Here is a quiz to find out what your style is like. So here it goes!

1. You see this awsome skinny cut jean and a pair of slammin' golden ballet flats. You have the perfect belt and shirt to go with it at home. what do you do?

A) I run for it with my credit card in my hand already!

B) I really do not know! Its colorfull but I was eyeing the rainbow shirt over there...

C) No way! That is sooo not what I want! I might get mistaken for a person who does not care!I have this perfect uniform in my bag that I was going to wear.

2. You are at the hair solan and you really want a new do. What exactly do you do?

A) I have always wanted the bobby cut that Rihina has, but I an going to keep the natual color I have.

B) I want to get these awsome corn rows I saw the other day on one of my friends.

C) I want this nice short hairstyle with no extra flair please!

3. A boy tells you he is so into you! He asks you to be his gf. How do you answer?

A) I saw I will tell him tomorrow becuase I just have so many other offers! Playing hard to get rulez!

B) I can not say yes fast enough! I will be floating on cloud 9 for at least a month!

C) I start asking him all of these questions that my dad usually would. I guess it will save him the effort!

4. The same guy that you had said yes to has another girl friend. Sweet revange anyone?

A) I am totes going to get revange. But not right now. I am perfectly fine and I am going to tell him so. Its not like we were getting married right it was his loss any way!

B) I fall into a deep depresion and do not come out of it untill he decides that I have suffered enough and he wants to be friends!

C) Tell him off in front of the whole school. But the worst part is that what you liked about him is that he always had a perfect come back, so as he walks away, you are left in tears.

The quiz is finished a pencils down. The results will be posted later. Peace out!

Amber-zine and itsaly!

Me and Amber zine are working together to support saftey for this up coming Halloween. Now I know what your thinking. You want to click off right now and leave me a comment that this is a bunch of trash because I want to be safe. But I totes understand! I love going crazy at Halloween but there are a few tips that you should know!

• Even though it seems babyish you should never trick-or-treat alone! Either go with an adult older sib or even a best friend. As long as you stick together I promise that you should be safe. And if you follow the other tips too!
• Do not stay out after 10:00pm! I know that it is a friday and that you want ot hit every house in the city, but you have to relize that sometimes there are cops patrolling the area and the halloween curfew is 10:00. So unless you want to be counting your candy in jail, I suggest you start heading home around 9:45pm just so that will not happen.
• Wear comfertable shoes! I know that your awsome costum might come with these great heals that you have been dying to wear, but think about it. If you want lot's of candy you might have to cut the trip short because of the heals. And besides, who will see them any way? Wear them to school with some skinny cut jeans and a v- line shirt and you can say: So what I am such a rockstar!
• Last but not least always have an adult check your candy before you eat it. Make sure that it is all wrapped up and every thing. I still ahve my dad do that for me so I might just see another trick and treating filled halloween!

More advice.

Yo, yo, yo! Its me agian. Ya know, I have noticed that no one has become a follower to this blog except for one persone. And that kind of makes me feel like I am not giving you the right advice. So I thought that if you think that you have some thing that you want me to post on the web site you could leave me a comment and I will post for every one to see. But if you do not and you just have a comment on how I should do things or just some advice for me to follow I will gladly take it no matter what. But just remember, this web site is for girls only and no boys allowed. This is a place where girls can share their most emmbarising stories, sad moments, or even peoms and songs without being judged. This is a place where you can express yourself no matter what time of the day. So peace out!

All about me!

Now I know that you would probobly like to know more about me so I guess I will tell you as much as I can.
I am pretty much colorfull. I guess you could say if it is a color I am probobly wearing it. I am a little punk rock but not goth. I am really energetic. My nick name is alycat, or at least that is what I like being called. I rock out to my own beat, not to mention life! Did I mention that I am totaly awsome! Lol. I tell you exactly what I think and syawhat ever is on my mind so if you are looking for advice that is true and honest, you do not have to ask twice. But I can give you comfort and make you feel like you can do any thing at the same time too! I love to do fun things and my best friend is amber. You might know her from www.ambers-zine.blogspot.com By the way if you click on it you can go there right now. We go to the same school. O and while I am talking about that I want to give a shout out to who ever is in the school and is on right now. Please leave a comment or if you need advice you know where to come!

News: So I am doing a contest. I want to see how scary you can write a halloween story with out the use of gore! There will be a first seconde and third winner. The first and seconde will get their stories posted on my blog. The third will get there name mentioned in one of my blogs. The contest ends on Halloween.

Fashion: Now so many people at my school are asking me how to look punk rocker sheek. It is very simple. Its called "originality" I mean come on! So many people are copying me with the crop tops and pixie cuts and it just gets really annoying. First lets start with belts. If you have a longer shirt that lets say, a darker green. Get a light brown color belt to loosley put around the waste. For pants you should go to your nearest target and pick out a pair of very dark blue LLCOOLJ jeans. Then for shoes you will want go to the nearest payless or wal-mart and pick up a pair of white and gold air walk sneakers. For hair I would say that you should cut it like Rihanas pixie cut. And if you do not know who Rihana is than I think you should go back and curl up under the rock that you have been living under for the past 9 years and croak. Also use a washable back dye with some red on the bottom. I suggest that you do this when you know that it is not raining out other wise the dye would just wash out. And then ta-da! You have your first punk rock sheek look!

Homework: I do this all the time too. So do not feel like you are the only one in the world that does this. You go completley over board with the school activities. Last year my grades suffered because of it. So what I say is chill out and you will do find. Another tip is do not put things off until last minute. I have this one friend who stays up until 1:00 doing homework because she forgot. And she has to wake up at 5:00. I go to bed at 9:30 and I still can not drag my but out of bed even though I get up at 6:30! My point is do your homework as soon as you get home and do not put things off no matter how tempting it may seem. What I do is I always put up a huge and I mean huge calender on my wall and I write down when projects are due and how to break up the time. Do this and you are garenteed to get an A. As long as you do your best! Peace out!

Your advice!

Dear gymnastagp,
I think that if you still like him then take a chance and ask him out again or talk to him about him and ask what he think went wrong and see if he feels the same way. What you have to think about is if you broke up with him and vice versa. Another thing is that if you think that he will take you back. But if I were you I would just pick up the phone right now and call him! I do not care if you think he hates you! Just tell him how you feel, but always be prepared for rejection! Not that he would because you sound pretty hard to pass up! Peace out and tell your friends!

Answers to your bf future!

Apparently you took the quiz! So here are the answers

Mostly A's: Wow you are really confident. But also really boy crazy! You want a guy who is super romantic and will fufull your every wim. But lets just chill for a sec. We all know that boys are very small minded and that they will want you to just be easy going. But that does not mean you will not find a guy who is will ing to be your world.

Mostly B's: You are the perfect amount! You like guys alot but you are yourslef and you do not try to hard to impress him.I would say that you want a guy who is not too mushy gooshey but still tells you stuff you want to hear or treats you.

Mostly C's: You really want things to stay the same between you and your guy friends don't you! But one day or another you are going to start noticing guys. But one thing you have to watch out for is if you really do like your closest guy friend, which is perfectly normal, you should show it just a little bit so if he likes you back he does not think you are playing hard to get! I would say you want a guy who does not do the mushey act and just loves that you are some one he can hang out with with out feeling like their is some kind of pressure between you two! For more advice on fashoin and some about guys visit www.ambers-zine.blogspot.com! Peace out!

Take the bf quiz to if you are boy crazy!

All righty! So we all know that valintines day is the mushiest day of the year. And me personaly I think that you do not need a bf to enjoy it. With my friends I like givingout candy and doing fun things to show that I am independat and that I do not need a guy in my life to make it specail. Ever since I broke up with my old jerk of a boy friend I have never been better. Not the point. So I will just shut up and give you the quiz.
1 Do you always think that if you do not have a boy friend that you will never get one?
A)Yes. I am so not a nerd
B) It would be nice but that is not my main priority.
C) What I need a boyfriend since when?

2. When you have a really hot guy friend that you want to become more with do you act and dress to impress?
A)What else am I supposed to do?
B)I do not want to be more than friends.
C) Never it would be way to uncomfertable!

3. Do you always get tongue tied infront of your crush?
A)Please I am way to good for that! I just zone out at his hottness.
B) Sometimes but we always laugh it off.
C)What why would I we are just friends.

4. Do you catch your self staring?
A)No I catch myself day dreaming about our first kiss and oicking our song.
B) Drool and all baby!
Why would I stare its not like I like him!

Ok. So you have just taken the quiz. On my next post look for the answers and do not be afraid to ask for some advice too! Tell your friends and peace out!

Boys Boys Boys

O.K So this is for all my girls who have some guy issues. I want to give you some tips first
1. Just because you do not have a boy friend does not mean you are not pretty or any thing like that, its because guys are just plain stupid sometimes. Scratch that. Make that all the time.
2. Do not give yourself up to the first guy that wants you to be thier girl friend. Politley tell them that you will think about it to see if you are ready for that kind of commintment.Because we all know that some guys all just want one thing, but some of them will respect and wait for you with kissing and all of that other junk if they really like you.
3. Do not try to make this your happy fairy tale ending because a strong relationship should not have to include that. But it is really nice if a guy brings you flowers or tells you he loves you. Here is a little hint to help you along the way, You can lead a horse to water but you can not make him drink. Which means that you can tell a guy what you expect from him but that does not mean he will try. But if he does but does not succeed do not because it is kind of cut when a guy tries but just cannot get it. If you want some advice just leave me a note and I will give you some advice. Oh and one more thing, just because a guy says he loves you can sometimes mean that he wants a little somen somen. But remember, us women are not a trophy or prize to be won and we always have to be treated with dignity. Peace out!